第一句话是：优秀是一种习惯。
这句话是古希腊哲学家亚里士多德说的。如果说优秀是一种习惯，那么懒惰也是一种习惯。人出生的时候，除 了脾气会因为天性而有所不同，其他的东西基本都是后天形成的，是家庭影响和教育的结果。所以，我们的一言一行都是日积月累养成的习惯。我们有的人形成了很 好的习惯，有的人形成了很坏的习惯。所以我们从现在起就要把优秀变成一种习惯，使我们的优秀行为习以为常，变成我们的第二天性。让我们习惯性地去创造性思 考，习惯性地去认真做事情，习惯性地对别人友好，习惯性地欣赏大自然。
注解：要会“装”，要持续的、不间断的“装”，装久了就成了真的了，就成了习惯了，比如准时到会，每次都按时到会，你装装看，你装30年看看，装的时间长了就形成了习惯。：）
第二句话是：生命是一种过程。
事情的结果尽管重要，但是做事情的过程更加重要，因为结果好了我们会更加快乐，但过程使我们的生命充实。
人的生命最后的结果一定是死亡，我们不能因此说我们的生命没有意义。世界上很少有永恒。大学生谈恋爱，每天都在信誓旦旦地说我会爱你一辈子，这实际上是 不真实的。统计数据表明，大学生谈恋爱的100对里有90对最后会分手，最后结婚了的还有一半会离婚。你说爱情能永恒吗？所以最真实的说法是：“我今天， 此时此刻正在真心地爱着你。”明天也许你会失恋，失恋后我们会体验到失恋的痛苦。这种体验也是丰富你生命的一个过程。
注解：生命本身其实是没有任何意义的，只是你自己赋予你的生命一种你希望实现的意义，因此享受生命的过程就是一种意义所在。
第三句话是：两点之间最短的距离并不一定是直线。
在人与人的关系以及做事情的过程中，我们很难直截了当就把事情做好。我们有时需要等待，有时需要合作， 有时需要技巧。我们做事情会碰到很多困难和障碍，有时候我们并不一定要硬挺、硬冲，我们可以选择有困难绕过去，有障碍绕过去，也许这样做事情更加顺利。大 家想一想，我们和别人说话还得想想哪句话更好听呢。尤其在中国这个比较复杂的社会中，大家要学会想办法谅解别人，要让人觉得你这个人很成熟，很不错，你才 能把事情做成。
注解：如果你在考数学试题，一定要答两点之间直线段最短，如果你在走路，从A到B，明明可以直接过去，但所以人都不走，你最好别走，因为有陷阱。在中国办事情，直线性思维在很多地方要碰壁，这是中国特色的中国处事智慧。
第四句话是：只有知道如何停止的人才知道如何加快速度。
我在滑雪的时候，最大的体会就是停不下来。我刚开始学滑雪时没有请教练，看着别人滑雪，觉得很容易，不 就是从山顶滑到山下吗？于是我穿上滑雪板，哧溜一下就滑下去了，结果我从山顶滑到山下，实际上是滚到山下，摔了很多个跟斗。我发现根本就不知道怎么停止、 怎么保持平衡。最后我反复练习怎么在雪地上、斜坡上停下来。练了一个星期，我终于学会了在任何坡上停止、滑行、再停止。这个时候我就发现自己会滑雪了，就 敢从山顶高速地往山坡下冲。因为我知道只要我想停，一转身就能停下来。只要你能停下来，你就不会撞上树、撞上石头、撞上人，你就不会被撞死。因此，只有知 道如何停止的人，才知道如何高速前进。
注解：用汽车来比喻，宝马可以上200公里，奇瑞却只能上120公里，为什么？发动机估计不相上下，差距在刹车系统，上了200公里刹不了车，呵呵，我的天！
第五句话是：放弃是一种智慧，缺陷是一种恩惠。
当你拥有六个苹果的时候，千万不要把它们都吃掉，因为你把六个苹果全都吃掉，你也只吃到了六个苹果，只 吃到了一种味道，那就是苹果的味道。如果你把六个苹果中的五个拿出来给别人吃，尽管表面上你丢了五个苹果，但实际上你却得到了其他五个人的友情和好感。以 后你还能得到更多，当别人有了别的水果的时候，也一定会和你分享，你会从这个人手里得到一个橘子，那个人手里得到一个梨，最后你可能就得到了六种不同的水 果，六种不同的味道，六种不同的颜色，六个人的友谊。人一定要学会用你拥有的东西去换取对你来说更加重要和丰富的东西。所以说，放弃是一种智慧。
注解：我的个人原则是：每一次放弃都必须是一次升华，否则就不要放弃；每一次选择都必须是一次升华，否则不要选择。
做人最大的乐趣在于通过奋斗去获得我们想要的东西，所以有缺点意味着我们可以进一步完美，有匮乏之 处意味着我们可以进一步努力。美国有一部电视片，讲的是一位富翁给后代留下了用不尽的遗产，结果他的后代全都变成了吸毒的、自杀的、进监狱的，或者精神病 患者。为什么会这样呢？因为这位富翁给自己后代留下的钱太多了，以致他们不需要劳动就可以继承一大笔财产。继承一大笔财富，就几乎什么都能买到。所以，当 一个人什么都不缺的时候，他的生存空间就被剥夺掉了。如果我们每天早上醒过来，感到自己今天缺点儿什么，感到自己还需要更加完美，感到自己还有追求，那是 一件多么值得高兴的事情啊！
请不要做浮躁的人！ 爱情永远不可能是天平.你想在爱情里幸福就要舍得伤心. 任何事没有永远.也别问怎样才能永远.生活有很多无奈.请尽量充实自己,充实生活.请善待生活.
The first sentence is: good is a habit.
This sentence is the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle said. If excellence is a habit, then laziness is a habit. Were born, in addition to temper will be different because of nature, other things are basically formed the day after tomorrow is the result of family influence and education. Therefore, our words and deeds are the habit over time. Some of us formed a good habit, some people form a bad habit. So from now on we should become a good habit, so that we take for granted the excellent behavior, become our second nature. Let us habitually to creative thinking, the habit of doing things to go seriously, the habit of being kind to others, habitually enjoy nature.
Note: To be "filled", to be continuous, uninterrupted "loaded", loaded for a long time to become really had to become accustomed to, such as punctual, always be on time, you install equipment See, you look 30 years installation, installed a long time to form a habit. :)
The second saying is: Life is a process.
The results, while important things, but the process of doing things is more important, because good results will be more happy, but the process to enrich our lives.
The end result of human life must be killed, we can not say that our life has no meaning. There are few world eternal. Students fall in love, every day vowed that I will love you forever, this is actually true. Statistics show that college students love the 100 pairs in the final 90 will break up, married and was also the last half will divorce. You say that love can be eternity?Therefore, the most true to say that: "Today I, at this moment is really in love with you." Maybe tomorrow you will out of love, romance later, we will experience the pain of lost love. This experience is also a process that enrich your life.
Note: life itself is no sense, but you give your life a meaning you want to achieve, so enjoy the process of life is a meaning.
The third sentence is: the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line.
In interpersonal relations and the process of doing things difficult for us to put things right straight. We sometimes need to wait, sometimes cooperative, sometimes tricky. We do things will encounter many difficulties and obstacles, and sometimes we do not have to endure, hard red, we can choose to bypass the difficulties, there is an obstacle to go around, maybe do things more smoothly. Think about it, we have to think about Naju Hua and others speak it better to listen to. Especially in China, the more complex society, we have to learn to think of ways to understand others, to make people think you are this person is very mature, very good, you can to do it.
Note: If you are mathematics questions, be sure to answer the shortest straight line between two points, if you walk from A to B, can clearly over, so people do not go, you'd better not go, because there are trap. To do things in China, linear thinking, in many places to run into a wall, this is the wisdom of doing things in China with Chinese characteristics.
The fourth sentence is: only know how to stop people know how to speed up.
When I ski, the greatest experience is to stop. I just started to learn skiing does not have a coach, watching other people ski, and I'm easy, do not slide down the mountain from the top is it? So I put on my skis, he slides about to slide down, and the results I slid down the mountain from the top, actually rolled down the mountain, bounded from point fall for many. I found that simply do not know how to stop, how to maintain balance.Finally, I repeated how to practice in the snow, the slope to stop. Training for a week, I finally learned to stop at any slope, sliding, and then stop.This time I find myself skiing, and to dare to the hill at high speed from the top of the next punch. Because I know if I want to stop, a turn will be able to stop. As long as you stop, you will not hit the tree and hit a rock and hit people, you will not be killed. Therefore, only know how to stop people who know how to fast forward.
Note: use the car analogy, you can on the 200 km BMW, Chery is only 120 km on, why? Estimates comparable to the engine, the difference in the braking system, 200 km on the car can not brake, Oh, my God!
Fifth sentence is: give a kind of wisdom, defects as a favor.
When you have six apples, do not eat them all, because all six apples you eat, you eat to six apples, eating into a kind of smell that apple taste. If you put five of the six apples out to others to eat, although, you lose five apples, but you actually got the other five of friendship and goodwill. You can get more later, when someone is when other fruits, they will certainly share with you, you will get an orange from individual hands, the hands of that person to get a pear, you may get the last six different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, six friendship. People must learn to use what you have to return to you something more important and rich. So, give a kind of wisdom.
Note: my personal principle is: every one must be sublimated to give up, or do not give up; every choice must be a distillation, or do not choose.
Life the greatest joy is through the struggle to get what we want, so there are shortcomings mean that we can further perfect, there is lack of place means that we can further efforts. The United States have a television, talking about the left to future generations a rich heritage with a different result, all his descendants into a drug, suicide, jail, or mental illness. Why is this so? Because the rich man left to their own offspring too much money, so they do not need labor to inherit a fortune. Inherit a fortune, you can buy almost anything. So, when a man has everything, he was deprived of the living space out. If we wake up every morning, feeling their children today, what shortcomings, feel that they need to be more perfect, are they still pursuing, it is a how to be happy about ah!
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