男人看了会沉默，女人看完会感动哭…
两个人每天面对面上班。她有时候会看着他走神儿。他有张好看而略微颓废的脸，看得多了，他会注意到她，便总是冲着她笑。她低下头，脸突然就红了。很快，周围的同事也窥测出她的心事来，频繁开起他俩的玩笑。一来二去，他和她竟真成了恋人。
他们都到了结婚的年龄。那天一起吃饭的时候，她犹豫着，提到了婚事。当时他愣了一下，没有作答，半天才嗫嚅着说，只怕……只怕以后，你跟着我会吃苦。
[不怕的。]她小声说。
他不再说话，轻轻叹了口气，在她看来，他算是答应了。
回 到家，她把两人的事告诉父母，遭到强烈反对。父亲和他们是一个单位的，对他的印象不好，一直就反对他们交往。理由是，他是不上进的男人，懒散，没事业 心，还跟外面社会上一些不务正业的年轻人来往，女人跟了他以后，以后绝对没有好日子过。尤其现在，工厂效益每况愈下，有能力的人都自己出去单干，而他还在 流水线上混着，一个月只有几百块钱。这样的男人，没前途的。
不仅父母，当初开他们玩笑的同事中，和她关系走的近的，也反对她嫁他，理由和父母一样，说这样的男人喜欢可以，绝对不能当丈夫。
她却铁了心一般，不管谁劝，就是一句话：我就要跟他。
父母失望至极，母亲冲她嚷：你这是拿自己的幸福做赌注！
她抬起头，斩钉截铁，就算会输，我也认了。
所有人的阻止都无济于事，24岁，她嫁他为妻。租了套小房子，从家里搬了出去。这也似乎更证明了大家的猜测，他是她本命年的劫。
可事实却出乎所有人的意料，结婚后的他像换了个人似的，分外刻苦努力起来。他先是离开半死不活的厂子，断了外面那帮乱七八糟的朋友，去一家私企跑起业务。
开始时没底薪，他又是外行，不知道走了多少弯路，费了多少心思，总算艰难的在那家公司站住了脚。
那一年，她看着他变得又黑又瘦，大夏天顶着太阳走在快被晒 化的柏油马路上，汗都顾不上擦。晚上几乎没有在10点之前回来过，一回家，倒在床上，衣服不脱就睡着了。
一年后，他的工作走上正轨，业务提成渐渐多了起来，而她却下岗了。索性，他不让她再出去工作了，安心呆在家里，等着做母亲。
孩子出生的时候，他做了业务经理，手里有大把的客户，还在业余时间重新学了英语和日语。公司给他配了车，他们按揭买了新房，每个人都看见了他的大好前途。
这时的她，因为生孩子胖了许多，又总不出门，穿衣服随意起来，和他站在一起，竟有种不相配的感觉。此时，当初替他担忧过的人又开始有了新的担忧，担心长着一对桃花眼的男人，会在这个时候离她而去。这个年头这样的事，简直就是数不胜数。
但这次，大家又看错了他，在他人生和事业不断攀升的日子里，他爱她始终如一。那爱，不知比恋爱时扎实了多少倍，是贴心贴肺的呵护。从衣食住行的大事到心情 喜好的小事，他面面俱到，从来没有忽略过。从她坐月子起，每天晚上，都是他给她洗脚，这个习惯一直被他保留了下来。
他从来不隐瞒对她的感情，有时同时和朋友开玩笑说：什么都换了，现在该换老婆了吧。他摇头，认真的说：这辈子，就是她了。
她的幸福，让所有人无话可说。其实当初她也不确定会拥有这样的幸福，那时她只是爱这个男子，舍不得离开他。哪怕跟着他吃苦，像她说的，她认了。
那天晚上，他又给她洗脚，温暖在水中，他一如既往，把她的脚握在掌心。她忽然笑着问：怎么会对我这么好？这个问题其实已经在她心里存了很久，她甚至还想问：如何会在就婚后，变了一个人？只是觉得不妥，所以只问了这一句，半开玩笑的口吻。
他依旧蹲在她的面前，握着她的脚，抬起头来，看了她片刻，然后认真的说：因为当初，你拿了自己一生的幸福做赌注，要跟着我，你是这个世界上唯一这样信任我的人，我怎么舍得让你输。
她看见，向来爱说爱笑的他，说完这句话，眼圈红了。
作为男人，不能让一个能把自己终身幸福都押在你身上的女人输，因为你输不起，爱你的那个女人更输不起!!
Chinese to English translation
Two people face every day to work. She watched him go sometimes children of God. He s got a good-looking and slightly decadent face, looking much more, he would notice her, it is always directed at her laugh.She bent her head, face suddenly red. Soon, around her colleagues look into the depths of the mind to, frequently opened They joke. One to two to go, he and she should really became lovers.
They all went to the marriage age. That day at lunch, she hesitated, mentioned marriage. He was stunned for a moment, there is no answer, only half a day and said softly, I'm afraid ... ... afraid of the future, I will suffer along with you.
[Not afraid. ] She whispered.
He no longer speak, sighed softly, in her view, he regarded as agreed.
Home, the two men told her parents, were strongly rejected. Father and they are a unit, a bad impression on him, has been to oppose their contacts. Reason is that the man he is not motivated, lazy, no ambition, even went to some proper job outside the community between young women with him later, after absolutely no better life. Especially now, the factory benefits from bad to worse, people have the ability to go it alone out on my own, but he also mixed with the pipeline, only a few hundred dollars a month. Such a man, not the future.
Not only parents, had opened their colleagues in the joke, and her close relationship to go, but also against her to marry him on the ground, like his parents, saying that a man like you can, definitely not when the husband.
She was bent in general, no matter who advised, in one sentence: I'm going with him.
Extremely disappointed with the parents, the mother shouted out at her: You're happy to take your bet!
She looked up, clear-cut, even if lose, I had admitted.
To stop all to no avail, 24 years old, she married his wife. Rent a set of small houses, moved out from home. This also seems to further prove our guess, he is her own path in the robbery.
But the fact is beyond everyone's expectations, after marriage, like a different man like him, is exceptionally hard work together. First, he left half-dead factory, broken mess of friends outside the gang, to a private company to run from the business.
Not the beginning of basic salary, he is an outsider, do not know how many detours to go, how much cost thinking, finally a difficult that the company stood at the foot.
That year, he became dark and she looked thin, large walk in the summer against the sun is fast drying of the asphalt road, wiping sweat are too busy to think. Almost no night to be back in 10 had a home down on the bed, clothes are not off to sleep.
A year later, his work on track, business commission, more and more together, and she was laid off. Simply, he would not let her go out to work, peace of mind to stay at home, waiting for the mother.
When a child is born, he made a business manager, the hands have a lot of customers, also spare time to learn the English and Japanese. Him with the car companies, they bought a new house mortgage, and everyone saw his bright future.
At this time for her because a lot of fat children, but also did not go outside, wear casual clothes up, and stand by him, feeling as much types do not match. At this point, had him worrying about the people began to have a new concern, with a pair of Taohua Yan fear of men, at this time away from her. Such a thing these days, is simply endless.
But this time, everyone has mistaken him, his life and career in the rising day, he loved her always. That love, than love I do not know how many times when the sound is intimate posted pulmonary care. A major event from the basic necessities of life to feel like the little things, he exhaustive, never been neglected. Starting from her confinement, every night, is he to her feet, his habit has been retained.
He never concealed her feelings, and sometimes both friends and jokingly said: What have changed, and now for the wife of the bar. He shook his head, careful to say: in this life, that is her.
She's happy, let everyone have nothing to say. In fact, she was not sure would have had such a happy, when she just love this man, could not bear to leave him. Even followed him to endure hardship, as she said, she confessed.
That night, he gave her feet warm in the water, he always put her foot hold in the palm. Suddenly she smiled and asked: how will I so good? This problem has already been stored in her mind for a long time, she even want to ask: How will on marriage, becomes a different person? Just feel wrong, so just ask this one, half-joking tone.
He was still crouched in front of her, holding her feet, looked up, looked at her a moment, then said seriously: because when you took the happiness of his life at stake, to follow me, you are in this world The only people that believed in me, how do I willing to let you lose.
She saw him always love say love to laugh, to finish the sentence, eyes were red.
As a man, can not let a lifetime of happiness can have their own charge the woman in you lose, because you lose, the woman you love more losers!!
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