Hey.. Do you believe in destiny? fate? or even thought of someone you were meant to whom?.
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Not talking the past working stories.... think we have met during some projects , colleague/partner jobworking relationship before ......but my memories has gone .... more than 6yrs i knew him ??? ....
Well I’ll share my love story in here... It starts here in Friendster again. I thought i wont meet him due to lost contact (we've not been in contacting him so long) Furthermore, 90% FORGOT who is He !!! .... after i've residing back to my little Hong Kong - Sandakan. ...OOPSS... HOPEFULLY he's not reading this!!!heeeeee...
I met my ever loved Genegene, my guy, here in friendster about 9 months ago, somewhen May, 2007 AGAIN SURPRISINGLY he found me via his friends's friends when he trying to browse spend his free time on web .. We started as NEW chatters since then (as typical getting to know each other event). I’m not really attracted with him in his pics because i find it dull , childish, and uhmm so not really so interesting.
It was Nov 12 when we decided to meet in Singapore , Bugis, somewhere near to my hotel (Mayo Inn , 9A Jln Besar). FATE BEGINS ~ I live in Malaysia, Sabah while he was from the other world of Singapore, Clementi... heheheeeeeee. When I first saw him, it was a "shocks, he looks the best in person!" Well, he really got the looks, the hair, and wow-- looking at that very beautiful pointed nose makes me wonder how God created him more beautiful than me.. hahaha...On our date, we just watch movie, playing in the amusement center, and guess what ?? I win !!! yeah ~~~happy...WE WENT TO OG SHOPPING COMPLEX, i’ve utilize 2hrs and chose 2pairs of shoes !! I knew he was surprised , shocked.... but he still smiling and said "is okay - guy shud wait 4 girl"hmmmm..........i love it....!! i can feel HIS friendly, shy, cheerful,PATIENCE IS D MOST IMPORTANT ....etc... hahaha! Then , we separate around 3pm, BOTH OF US thought , we will not meet again till ????? next trip....I MET MY OLD FRENDS FOR DINNER AND iN FACT, IM WILL BE MEETING MY FRIEND ALSO FRENSTER FOR SUPPER THAT NIGHT BUT I SENT WRONG NUMBER!!!I DEFINITELY NOT REMEMBER HIS NUMBER~~GOSHHHH~~~I REMEMBERED MY LITTLE CUTE GENEGENE~SO I CALLED HIM OUT IF HE FREE . HE BROUGHT ME TO BOAT GUAY KTV WITH HIS FRIENDS. HE BLUF HIS FRENS THAT IM HIS GF....... DUNNO Y I BLUR BLUR TO FOLLOW HIM LYING ... WE WENT EARLY BITES @ "WAN DOU SHI" CHINESE DIM SUM .........AND HE SENT ME BACK TO HOTEL 6AM .... HE SEEMS LIKE NOT WILLING TO let me go ?? .......We took 3pictures --- Everything is start from 6yaokuai (He scared me ~ saying there is 6 of ghosts in my hotel rooms ). Whole night i couldnt sleep even im really tired after outing.
He still calling & sms me after my returned to hometown BUT ALMOST EVERYNIGHT compare to the past record. and long hours sometimes 3hrs++dunno wat we chatting.... he's good story teller ... not me....cox im already superb tired after wholeday sales talk....!!!!
oMG
26Nov 2007 , he became weird , messageS CONTAINS Some LOVE , CARE, SINCERITY OBVIOUSLY, i dont know what have to response..In my heart, I decided to have him as my boyfriend cox i can feel he is a good guy BUT I NEVER SMS HIM FOR AN ANSWER . 29Nov 2007, I replied his sms "DEAR....."meaning to say im accepting this relationship from now onwards.... . Finally, both of us admit we are official lovers on 1 DEC 07 , and formed up our kuai kuai & jinjin Shi Jie ...Lalaland story is beginning.... .we called each other ... babe , dear , baobei , darling, honey, dardar, jinjin , kuaikuai, .....cox we wan outstanding no the common calling names !!! end up we used to call babe / bb / jin jin = Yao Jin - genegene and Yao kuai = kuai kuai is me !!
During this period ,I can tell anyone that I’m not naive but as a typical lady who really don’t want to be hurt, every rumors i heard affects me. Sometimes, me and Gene haven’t had the same day as we met. The tension became worst when i saw some of his frensters messages.
I was loved with Gene since he’s trying hard to express his love towards me , everything he did, i trust he will become a better man...... , so to clarify everything, I ignored all those rumored people in terms of making everything fair to him. Since it was my first time to decide to have a mutual relationship with my "chatmate" I gathered informations, comments, and any reactions from Gene’s friends/online frens . I soon found out that every details and consulted it to Gene if it is true. WEll, he admit every rumors was true, but insisted that not all times he could be like that. I was not shocked after the revealing, but it hurts knowing all his past. I never talked to him about days (I think) but he keeps on texting and calling and leave me offline messages. I soon realized that I’m not fair and I was only making everything so difficult for both of us. I gave Gene a chance and I tried not to look at his past again, instead to accept that everyone made some mistakes and that’s what happened to him. I learnt forgive n forget.... give n take .... understand soulmate if i really wanna b wif him .... truly wan him as my companion in dis life .... also....nextx xxx??????????? L!FE..........
Some Peoples (my online frens too) says we look perfectly meant for each other and it overwhelms our heart (i felt released & calm). We dated again Dec 29, 2007 (celebrate New yr 2008) This is our 1st date , felt shy, we went to Orchard , he hold my hand during entry... we take lift n watch movie, The Legend.....scary,,,,,he finally hug me ....feel comfortable with his care. Then, we went to Ngee Ann City Entrance and have a sit there till early morning, he kiss me....1st muackkkss,,,,Day 2 - He & Jason (his buddy) came n fetch me to Orchard again ... K box...met Guoqing, Xiulin, ....Dinner @Swensen ...Felt uncomfortable when they staring @ me...Xiulin asked abt our issues .... (privacy cant tell here) .. . conclusion, frankly, feel not right is her situation to ask or give any suggestion....feel disguting, annoyed, bit anger, .... i don wan our R’ship being interrupted by some1 ...wat2do,,,,,this gal is his best lady fren....Super good image in his heart.....i believe...(seems like im jealous oh,,,,,,) Day 3 We went to East Coast , ..... our romance day....Day 4 Met his buddies @ Boat Quay .... boring there, wasted time.....7am...1st time saw he cried ,,,,the scene,.....so touch.... yes....i knew he serious abt me ....
On 14 March 2008. (that was really far but amazingly he arrived in SDK - his 1st time visit me @ strange city w/o any info).I met him @Tai Lee Garden, ....we went to Pasar Kim Fung ate icecream, crazy, mmmm.....its raining night, .,.... we have pizza as dinner,.....Day 2 ate youtiao, bread, sugarcane, ......before Tyng Garden, .....Fuhao Restaurant & midnight Chinatown KTV ....Day 3 Dragon cheese tart & egg tart ...... we enjoyed eating this few days,,,,,,gained weight.,..... but i felt lost , deperate after heard somethings.... we have sushi dinner .... wasted food ..... cun finish it....ordered too much .....
WE CONSPIRE WE ARE COUPLE AND CONQUER ANYTHINGS TOGETHER !!!
Today, Apr 1, we successfully have our 4th month anniversary, though we have a some arguments on nonsense matters throughout this few months. BUT We are happy with our relationship now. And my God especially our Lalaland members continue to bless us.
Im happy ... .....Bebe is planning to come over end mth of May 08 ....
10/04/08 not happy cos babe kip protect his "Daisy"...he said nothing between them nvr kip in contact 4 so long seems like he tryin 2 cover sumthin...felt sad aftr found out they stil contact mid yr 07 (he statement long time no contact???) ...i knew the girl like him but to protect relationship we must prove to each others that we not hidden something right??
How we settle this ?? we compromise To show our sincere and proven ... we must try to avoid this kind of happenings .... i try he try ... we deleted all unknown contacts especially who loves to chat with us ... or wooing us ... no more no more .... Finally we success !!! We only keep serious or trustworthy friends in contact due to some personal/business contacts...
as for now 010210, we are stable and would like to settle down 101010. i've changed my plan ..back to Spore earlier 2months...no much different in fact....
PS :
Do you know the relation between your two eyes?They blink together , move together , cry together ,See things together , and sleep together .. (and, I don't mean "that"!)Even though they never see each other.. Relationship should be just like that Life is like hell without friends.. " Who is your LOVER? .. All The Best........ ~*-*~ ~*-*~
2008 DEC
Am I ready? Readiness for what kind of thing? My friends, one by one have settled down their life with their significant other half, some even have their children and live with full happiness at least for now, and I’m sincerely hope that they can be last forever and ever. It’s really made me feel so envy with their marriage life and also made me start to think of mine as well.
Marriage life? I think it will be quite new and fresh to me, it’s totally another new stage of lifestyle for me. I have many sorts of imaginary scenes for my future marriage life. Imagination is always sweet and happy. But, it’s cruel to remind myself that reality will always much more different than our dreams. No doubt, this situation could be happened to everyone in every marriage. In order that, for me, I will always advise myself not to expect or imagine too much on my future marriage, this is to avoid any dissatisfaction or comparison that could create many complaints and demands on/from your other half in future. Just let everything go naturally.
Have you ever heard about a famous proverb like "Getting Married is the life of starting to step into the tomb" (This is what I heard from some of my male friends) and I wonder how true is this. Most of the cases, they claim that their spouse (which mean women or us) will be totally controlling their freedom, suspecting every single things/movements or controlling their financial ability after getting married. In fact, when there is something related with relationship, definitely there will be occurrence of jealousy. We are human being, we have our own feeling/reaction/preference on every kind of things/events. Anyway, to avoid this kind of situation, just try to minimize the chance of making your partner feeling unsecured or suspecting you by showing your faithful heart and always keep your promise to them. Well, for me, I never believe there will be no argument, disagreement or dishonest at all in a marriage. For sure, the minor one we still able to handle with care, but as if we are facing the serious matter? What’s our reaction? How could we handle it without hurting anyone? Especially when an unlucky party is facing a dishonest partner or even a violence partner, I think the entire marriage life will be suffering, isn’t it?
Study through some of the reports/articles regarding marriage nowadays, it seems that marriage can be broken up so easily, relationship now is soft like a beancurd, with any harder pressure, it will be broken or burst up like nothing. But for me, I have seen quite a number of examples for successful relationship or even successful long distance relationship. Who said long distance relationship does not exist? Advance technologies nowadays can make many things become reality. Sometimes, broken up with some reasons that made other party seems or feels like very real or truth or guilty is just an excuse for somebody. Personally, I can’t stand with this kind of people, simply give any excuse to break up with another party who treat them very nicely and did not make any fault.
And, for me, I never demand much from my partner, I know no one will be perfect in this world. Since I was young, I’m only looking for the guy with good personality and can treat me nicely. Mr. Right / Mr. Perfect to me are very simple. He only needs to be understanding, tolerant, can bright up my mind when I’m down, mature or knowledgeable that can give/teach me useful information/advise when I lost, responsible and always keep his promise, know when to be serious and when to be playful, loyalty, hardworking and always looking to go forward or improvement on himself, friendly and piety to both of our friends and family; and the most important is he must adore me like the precious one and always put me at his first priority. I do not think it is hard right? And, I never looking for the guys who are rich and proud, good appearance, flirty and wild guys who like to hang out other places rather than home, always put his friends at the first priority and never think of their partner’s feeling, strong gentleman egoism, no ambitious to their future life, stubborn and bad temper, satyr, stingy and not generous, unfaithful/dishonest, violence and etc. This is because I am not tough enough, I really scared to get hurt from any relationship. In other words, I only choose to fell into a relationship that I feel secured and safe. I never want to test or try on a relationship, once I attach with somebody, I really meant to be forever and long lasting unless there’s something occurred which can make us separated. I do not like to fool with love and I expect the others treat me the same as well, I do not like anyone getting hurt in a relationship unless there’s some incidents happened between two parties.
Am I too pessimistic on marriage? I’m not! I’m just expressing some of my ideas regarding marriage nowadays. I think I should be optimistic to my future marriage as if my future spouse still sticks to the current one. I believe that he’s definitely a nice guy who can let me to rely on and feel at ease to share my entire life with. Although I have been so desperate to get married in last few months girls like to think many weird stuffs, but I know I’m still not ready yet. Getting married is easy, only there are tons of things we have to face and handle later on, if there’s no proper arrangement or management in a marriage, the worst ending will be DIVORCED. It needs lots of commitments to make a marriage successful. I’m concerned about those commitments, it isn’t a game anymore, we have to pay full responsibility for everything we are going to do or we have done. There is no more one man business but it is involving two parties. Hence, the tension and pressure from a marriage is not a joke, it is quite a heavy burden for those who are not ready and not planned properly yet. As a matter of fact, I have my own arrangement and planning now, frankly speaking, marriage is still under my planning now, it’s still a long list to go before I can step into a marriage. So, let me achieve some of my planning or dreams first before I can think about it. Marriage is very important to me, once decision made, it will be whole life decision, I think I need more time to reconsider and plan for it. Dear! I hope you can wait for me for another few more years, I know that you will understand that we need to work harder for our career in these few years to achieve more things, I know that you will understand that we need more preparations for a good quality future especially on financial support at this moment. I know you are being so understanding, patience and tolerance to my unpredictable emotional all the way I started my social university. I’m learning, try to learn as many things and gain as much as knowledge for myself. You told me I changed so much after worked, YES! I DID!, perhaps I think this is a nice change for me compared with the previous me. I know you will always support me and reassure me when I need someone beside me and listen to my every single ups and downs. I know I’m not a good partner to you because I’m not perfect at all, but try to accept every single things of mine, no matter the goods or the bad one, I always hope that I’m the unique one and the one and the only one in your heart. I do always pray that you will never compare me with the other girls in this world and you will always love me in this way. I WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR SACRIFICE TO ME IS WORTHY AND ALWAYS VALUABLE IN FUTURE. I WILL PAY BACK TO YOU WITH DOUBLE TRIPLE TIMES. I WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL HAVE A VERY HAPPINESS FAMILY IN FUTURE, I WILL DO IT FOR YOU & MAKE YOUR DREAM COME TRUE.
Latest update June 30, 2010
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