FEMALE MUST KNOW

男人的等级

有一个老经理，也是我的老前辈与我分析了一等 - 五等男人的分别，可以拿来做参考哦！

一等男人，家外有家：-
（他 们多数是大富大贵的男人，多数是个大老板，经济能力非常地好。很多女人都希望嫁给这样的男人，嫁入豪门！但是，选择这种男人的女人，不但需要有极大的忍耐 力，更最好不要过问男人的行踪，明白“知道的越少，生活的越开心”的道理。他们不喜欢女人过问他们在外面的私生活，因为他们有一个概念是“只要你把我的家 打理得井井有条，把孩子照顾的无微不至，每个月定期领一笔数目可观的家用去做你爱做的事情，其他的事不必你操心”。这一类的男人不会抛妻弃子，原配始终是 原配，妾侍始终是妾侍，他们有本领养活几个家，这个就能证明他们的本事。选择这类男人的女人，最好挣一只眼，闭一只眼，只要明白不愁吃、不愁穿，生活无忧 无虑，每天过着阔太的生活，每个月领薪金来挥霍、装扮自己或投资，只要知道自己的丈夫会回家，还会疼你们就足够了，不能太在意他对其他家的女人怎样。）

二等男人，花中寻家：-
（大 多数都是情场浪子或是钻石王老五，通常很多交际应酬，拥有不错的经济能力。但是，喜欢被女人包围的感觉，迟迟都不结婚，慢慢地从各式各样的女人中选择自己 的生活伴侣，可能会安定下来，也可能会永远纠缠在几个女人当中。选择这类男人的女人，需要很大的忍耐力、也不能是个醋瓶子，要知道他们都是逢场作兴。）

三等男人，放工回家：-
（最受女人欢迎的一种男人，大多数的女人都会选择这种男人。喜欢安定生活的女人，都会选择这种男人。他会给你安定的小康之家，但是不能够要求他们大富大贵。因为大富大贵的男人，并不会放工回家，因为他们每天都会有很多应不完的酬。）

四等男人，妻不在家：-
（这 些男人，通常妻子比他们能干，经济能力比他们好。虽然他们有一份安定的职业，勉强可以养家糊口，但是，必须还要靠妻子出外工作来撑担。所以，这类男人，比 较自卑，因为他们会被列为“小白脸”或“靠老婆吃饭的男人”。这种男人，比较不敢偷吃，因为有老婆的权威在掌管着。他们的妻子，会比他们更常不在家，因为 要在外为了他们的家人打拼、赚钱养家，让他们生活的更美好。所以，这类男人，通常会负起家庭主夫的责任，打扫、洗衣、煮饭、晒衣服和带孩子都必须要他们负 责，是个典型的小男人。）

五等男人，无妻无家：-
（这 些男人最可怜，没有安定的职业，也没有安定的收入，所以，别说要养家养妻子，连养活自己都是一个问题。所以，这些男人，通常是教育水准不是很高的男人，或 者是完全没有上进心的男人，工作完全不是他生活中的一部分，而通常吃喝玩乐，游手好闲才是他们的生活目标。所以，可以说，有头脑的女人，都不会选择这类男 人。所以，他们才会无妻无家）。

所以我说，“男人最怕入错行，女人最怕嫁错郎”。女人啊！应该多考虑你应该选择怎样的男人来陪你渡过你的下半人生。记得要带眼识人哦！

你会选择哪一等的男人呢？一定不会是第五等吧？

女人必知!!1. 当你们不开心的时候,男人都很想你们找人讲心事的是他们^^★★(男人会觉得知己是个有用的男朋友..^^) 2. 男人最讨厌女人无理取闹!!就算要闹啊…都要有理由啦…^^★★(但有些男人都会很温柔^^你无理取闹,都会认错..**但当他们认错时,见好就收啦..不然都是吵架收场)3. 你们都会认为男人很好色..对性很需要,但你们不知道..男人都不想的...只是他们身里多了你们女生没有的东西吧了..★★(如果你性冷淡的话,不要只是想知己..为他想下..他们也很辛苦的啊.. )^^4. 身为一个好的女朋友..未婚妻.或老婆都是要顾着他在家人面前的面子..你们都不想他在家人面前提不起头的啊..=.=★★(他的家人叫到你来吃团圆饭,你都推的话...真的没话好讲咯=.=..5. 成功的男人背后的女人??其实都是你们^^但回头想想..你们做过什么?★★(男人都很需要你们的支持…你们可以在他**上工**上学时..给电话/信息他啊^^6. 其实男人不这么容易做的=.=..我们都很弱,但都要在你们面前得很坚强..★★(因为男人认为坚强才给到你们安全感)7. 为了坚强..男人都不愿意给谁看到他们很弱的一面..男人的无尽伤痛都留进黑夜..8. 一个正常的男人都是喜欢会煮饭会煲汤的女人..★★ (如果每天吃外面,命都会短很多=.=…你都不想他这么早离开你的吗**)9. 男人很讨厌收到没有用的礼物..摆在那边又不是@@丢了又不是=.=★★(当你们送礼物时,应注意到他需要什么..什么东西要买新的给他,才对^^..10. 细心是你们女生的任务@@@男朋友发生什么事..需要什么..??你们都应该注意到^^★★(他生病了..很冷..你们都会买药给他吃..抱着他,给他无限的温暖啦^^

男人！女人！

收到一封看似不错的邮件，与大家分享一下，希望你们会喜欢：
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男人

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1）訂婚前好像---孫子 - 對女友百依百順,關心有加，忍氣吞聲。
2）訂婚後好像---兒子 - 已經開始頂嘴，開始有個人的意見。

3）結婚後好像---老子 - 已經變成名符其實的老爺，由他發號施令。

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女人

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1）訂婚前好像---燕子 - 愛怎麼飛就怎麼飛，不受拘束自由自在。

2）訂婚後好像---鴿子 - 雖然能飛，但必須回家。

3）結婚後好像---鴨子 - 再也不能亂飛，祇有看家守著老子。

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有人說，一個人過了二十五歲就該為自己的外貌負責任；我想，男人最應該為女人的外貌負責任。我們總是被我們所愛的東西定型，一個女人愛上一個怎樣的男人，她就會變成一個怎樣的女人；女人不 美，是男人的責任。

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1）一個清麗脫俗的女人跟 了一個俗不可耐的男人，日子久了，女人也會變得很庸俗，她的五官沒有改變，皮膚依然白皙，但是她的氣質總是比不上從前了。

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2）一個本來很漂亮的女人愈來愈憔悴，那麼，一定是她的男人待她不好，她有 憂傷，才會失去光彩。

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3）一個本性馴良的女人愈來愈潑辣，那麼，一定是她的男人不爭氣，她只好比他強。

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4）一個清秀的女人變得愈來愈冶艷，那麼，一定是她的男人不能滿足她，她只好把風情投向其他男人。

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5）一個 本來很高貴的女人變得愈來愈隨便，那麼，她的男人一定是個沒上進心的人，所以，她也失去了上進心。

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6）一個 本來很平凡的女人，變得愈來愈漂亮，愈來愈有氣質，舉手投足愈來愈有味道，那當然是她的男人的功勞。

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男人千萬不要抱怨身邊的女人愈來愈 難看，她不好看，問題一定出在你身上。

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你们认同吗？我觉得有些还蛮准的。所以我说，男人啊！记得要如何对你的女人，让她永远都那么漂亮和有气质。好好地对待你们的女人哦！

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

值得深思的话....

我好喜欢以下的一些名句，真的很有意思，来与大家分享：-
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第一篇

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第一句：
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没有一百分的另一半，只有五十分的俩个人；
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第二句：
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付出真心才会得到真心，却也可能伤得彻底；
保持距离就能保护自己，却也注定永远寂寞；
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第三句：
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通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人才是真正爱你的人；
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第四句：
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有时候不是对方不在乎你而是你把对方看得太重；
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第五句：
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冷漠，有时候并不是无情，只是一种避免被伤害的工具；
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第六句：
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如果我们之前有1000 步的距离，你只要跨出第一步，我就会朝你的方向走其余的999 步；
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第七句：
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为你的难过而快乐的是敌人，
为你的快乐而快乐的是朋友，
为你的难过而难过的就是那些该放进心里的人；
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第八句：
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就算是BELIEVE中间也藏了一个LIE；
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真正的朋友并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题，而是在一起就算不说话也不会感到尴尬；
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第十句：
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朋友就是被你看透了还能喜欢你的人。
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第二篇
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男人必知：
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1） 别以为女人是你肚子里的蛔虫，你爱不爱她， 你什么都不说，什么也不做，她怎么会知道。
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2) 别在女人撒娇的时候冷落她， 否则她可能会认为她在你心中已经不重要了。
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3） 性关系对女人来说，远远没有男人想得那么重要，所以不要以为她爱你，就该在你需要的时候无条件地满足你， 那样她只能认为你只在乎性，而不是她。
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4） 在她穿上新衣的时候，适当地赞扬她一下，别总说这个太暴露、那个太短！应该说衣服你穿得真漂亮，但只能穿给我看！她会明白的。
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5） 别动不动对她说： 你懂什么？ 我的事你别管！女人也有自尊， 即使在她最爱的男人面前， 她依然有自尊。
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6） 在她独处的时候，给她自由， 别说她今天很奇怪； 她静默的时候，给她拥抱，别问她为什么。
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7） 她一定会有男性朋友，甚至会是知心朋友，别担心， 女人对爱情和友谊往往比男人分得更清楚。
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8） 吃醋是女人的专利，如果女人有天不吃你的醋了， 那只可能是她不爱你了；但醋吃多了，女人会伤心， 依然会离开她爱的你。

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Love Quotes

Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life...

Relationships work best when they are balanced.

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Never explain yourself to any one.

Because the person who likes you doesn't need it, and the person who dislikes you won't believe it.

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When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free.

When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time.

When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come.

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When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices.

Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams.

Choice is yours.

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We make them cry who care for us.

We cry for those who never care for us.

And we care for those who will never cry for us.

This is the truth of life, its strange but true.

Once you realise this, its never too late to change.

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Don't make promise when you are in joy. Don't reply when you are sad. Don't take decision when you are angry.

Think twice..., Act Wise.

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Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again.

Enjoy every moment of life...

Nice quotes right? Please read through it and think about it. It's totally can apply to our life. Very useful quotes.

Love has the magical power to melt stony hearts. In the words of Sarah Ramirez," Love is undeniable, unforgettable, unimaginable and what every heart yearns for... 'True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.' In the contemporary times, these Valentines quotes are gaining popularity. They are sailing smoothly in greetings cards and also finding place in mobile phone messaging on the lovebirds' day. They are the most beautiful and smart way of expressing your deepest emotions to your someone special.

Here are some Valentine's Day quotes and I'm sure if you say one of these Valentine Day quotations to your sweetheart, it will have miraculous effects on your love life.

"Love can make you do things that you never thought possible".
"Love, an emotion so strong that you would give up everything, to just feel it once, to know that you are part of something special. To know that you can feel what love really is, to know, to feel, to love."
"Love is like an hour glass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties"-Jules Renord
Love is not finding someone to live with; It's finding someone you can't live without -Rafael Ortiz
Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.
True love doesn't have a happy ending, because true love never ends.
"At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet."- Plato
There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread - Mother Teresa
To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another - G.W. Von Leibnitz

Love is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction - Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence - H. L. Mencken
In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing - Mignon McLaughlin
Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your good health has vanished - Og Mandino
Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time: effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end - Germaine De Stael

Blessed Quotes

If you woke up this morning with more health than illness,you are more blessed than themillion who won't survive the week.
If you have never experienced the danger of battle,the loneliness of imprisonment,the agony of torture orthe pangs of starvation,you are ahead of 20 million peoplearound the world.
If you attend a church meetingwithout fear of harassment,arrest, torture, or death,you are more blessed than almostthree billion people in the world.
If you have food in your refrigerator,clothes on your back, a roof overyour head and a place to sleep,you are richer than 75% of this world.
If you have money in the bank,in your wallet, and spare changein a dish someplace, you are amongthe top 8% of the world's wealthy.
If your parents are still married and alive,you are very rare,especially in the United States.
If you hold up your head with a smileon your face and are truly thankful,you are blessed because the majority can,but most do not.
If you can hold someone's hand, hug themor even touch them on the shoulder,you are blessed because you canoffer God's healing touch.
If you can read this message,you are more blessed than overtwo billion people in the worldthat cannot read anything at all.
You are so blessed in ways you may never even know.




If you are feeling blessed, repay the blessings bestowed unto you and do something for others.

A blessing cannot be kept. If it stops with you, then the blessing will disappear. The blessing will only keep working if it is continuously passed around. If you are a recipient of a blessing, keep the blessing working by being the source of blessing to other people.

From Friends To Lovers

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From Friends To Lovers

Sometimes I feel sad and sometimes I feel blue
but whenever I see you, I'm as happy as can be
for you bring a smile upon my face
and a feeling of joy within my heart
you're like my sunshine in the morning
and my stars that glow at night
you're like the waves in the ocean
the cool breeze in the wind
like the call of the birds in the morning dew
like the sounds of beauty in the night
you see all of these things are of beauty and love
that's how I feel whenever you are near
for it was the passion and desire from both of us
that opened up the world for our eyes to see
for our love of each other will grow and grow
and our needs and desires will be more everyday
for a friend you once were and will always be
has turned into love as it should have been
so I want you to know as a friend and lover
that in my heart and arms you'll always stay
for our love for each other will never fade.

Far Distance Love

Far Distance Love - FDR
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Not talking the past working stories.... think we have met during some projects , colleague/partner jobworking relationship before ......but my memories has gone .... more than 6yrs i knew him ??? ....

Well I’ll share my love story in here... It starts here in Friendster again. I thought i wont meet him due to lost contact (we've not been in contacting him so long) Furthermore, 90% FORGOT who is He !!! .... after i've residing back to my little Hong Kong - Sandakan. ...OOPSS... HOPEFULLY he's not reading this!!!heeeeee...

I met my ever loved Genegene, my guy, here in friendster about 9 months ago, somewhen May, 2007 AGAIN SURPRISINGLY he found me via his friends's friends when he trying to browse spend his free time on web .. We started as NEW chatters since then (as typical getting to know each other event). I’m not really attracted with him in his pics because i find it dull , childish, and uhmm so not really so interesting.


It was Nov 12 when we decided to meet in Singapore , Bugis, somewhere near to my hotel (Mayo Inn , 9A Jln Besar). FATE BEGINS ~ I live in Malaysia, Sabah while he was from the other world of Singapore, Clementi... heheheeeeeee. When I first saw him, it was a "shocks, he looks the best in person!" Well, he really got the looks, the hair, and wow-- looking at that very beautiful pointed nose makes me wonder how God created him more beautiful than me.. hahaha...On our date, we just watch movie, playing in the amusement center, and guess what ?? I win !!! yeah ~~~happy...WE WENT TO OG SHOPPING COMPLEX, i’ve utilize 2hrs and chose 2pairs of shoes !! I knew he was surprised , shocked.... but he still smiling and said "is okay - guy shud wait 4 girl"hmmmm..........i love it....!! i can feel HIS friendly, shy, cheerful,PATIENCE IS D MOST IMPORTANT ....etc... hahaha! Then , we separate around 3pm, BOTH OF US thought , we will not meet again till ????? next trip....I MET MY OLD FRENDS FOR DINNER AND iN FACT, IM WILL BE MEETING MY FRIEND ALSO FRENSTER FOR SUPPER THAT NIGHT BUT I SENT WRONG NUMBER!!!I DEFINITELY NOT REMEMBER HIS NUMBER~~GOSHHHH~~~I REMEMBERED MY LITTLE CUTE GENEGENE~SO I CALLED HIM OUT IF HE FREE . HE BROUGHT ME TO BOAT GUAY KTV WITH HIS FRIENDS. HE BLUF HIS FRENS THAT IM HIS GF....... DUNNO Y I BLUR BLUR TO FOLLOW HIM LYING ... WE WENT EARLY BITES @ "WAN DOU SHI" CHINESE DIM SUM .........AND HE SENT ME BACK TO HOTEL 6AM .... HE SEEMS LIKE NOT WILLING TO let me go ?? .......We took 3pictures --- Everything is start from 6yaokuai (He scared me ~ saying there is 6 of ghosts in my hotel rooms ). Whole night i couldnt sleep even im really tired after outing.

He still calling & sms me after my returned to hometown BUT ALMOST EVERYNIGHT compare to the past record. and long hours sometimes 3hrs++dunno wat we chatting.... he's good story teller ... not me....cox im already superb tired after wholeday sales talk....!!!!
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26Nov 2007 , he became weird , messageS CONTAINS Some LOVE , CARE, SINCERITY OBVIOUSLY, i dont know what have to response..In my heart, I decided to have him as my boyfriend cox i can feel he is a good guy BUT I NEVER SMS HIM FOR AN ANSWER . 29Nov 2007, I replied his sms "DEAR....."meaning to say im accepting this relationship from now onwards.... . Finally, both of us admit we are official lovers on 1 DEC 07 , and formed up our kuai kuai & jinjin Shi Jie ...Lalaland story is beginning.... .we called each other ... babe , dear , baobei , darling, honey, dardar, jinjin , kuaikuai, .....cox we wan outstanding no the common calling names !!! end up we used to call babe / bb / jin jin = Yao Jin - genegene and Yao kuai = kuai kuai is me !!

During this period ,I can tell anyone that I’m not naive but as a typical lady who really don’t want to be hurt, every rumors i heard affects me. Sometimes, me and Gene haven’t had the same day as we met. The tension became worst when i saw some of his frensters messages.

I was loved with Gene since he’s trying hard to express his love towards me , everything he did, i trust he will become a better man...... , so to clarify everything, I ignored all those rumored people in terms of making everything fair to him. Since it was my first time to decide to have a mutual relationship with my "chatmate" I gathered informations, comments, and any reactions from Gene’s friends/online frens . I soon found out that every details and consulted it to Gene if it is true. WEll, he admit every rumors was true, but insisted that not all times he could be like that. I was not shocked after the revealing, but it hurts knowing all his past. I never talked to him about days (I think) but he keeps on texting and calling and leave me offline messages. I soon realized that I’m not fair and I was only making everything so difficult for both of us. I gave Gene a chance and I tried not to look at his past again, instead to accept that everyone made some mistakes and that’s what happened to him. I learnt forgive n forget.... give n take .... understand soulmate if i really wanna b wif him .... truly wan him as my companion in dis life .... also....nextx xxx??????????? L!FE..........

Some Peoples (my online frens too) says we look perfectly meant for each other and it overwhelms our heart (i felt released & calm). We dated again Dec 29, 2007 (celebrate New yr 2008) This is our 1st date , felt shy, we went to Orchard , he hold my hand during entry... we take lift n watch movie, The Legend.....scary,,,,,he finally hug me ....feel comfortable with his care. Then, we went to Ngee Ann City Entrance and have a sit there till early morning, he kiss me....1st muackkkss,,,,Day 2 - He & Jason (his buddy) came n fetch me to Orchard again ... K box...met Guoqing, Xiulin, ....Dinner @Swensen ...Felt uncomfortable when they staring @ me...Xiulin asked abt our issues .... (privacy cant tell here) .. . conclusion, frankly, feel not right is her situation to ask or give any suggestion....feel disguting, annoyed, bit anger, .... i don wan our R’ship being interrupted by some1 ...wat2do,,,,,this gal is his best lady fren....Super good image in his heart.....i believe...(seems like im jealous oh,,,,,,) Day 3 We went to East Coast , ..... our romance day....Day 4 Met his buddies @ Boat Quay .... boring there, wasted time.....7am...1st time saw he cried ,,,,the scene,.....so touch.... yes....i knew he serious abt me ....

On 14 March 2008. (that was really far but amazingly he arrived in SDK - his 1st time visit me @ strange city w/o any info).I met him @Tai Lee Garden, ....we went to Pasar Kim Fung ate icecream, crazy, mmmm.....its raining night, .,.... we have pizza as dinner,.....Day 2 ate youtiao, bread, sugarcane, ......before Tyng Garden, .....Fuhao Restaurant & midnight Chinatown KTV ....Day 3 Dragon cheese tart & egg tart ...... we enjoyed eating this few days,,,,,,gained weight.,..... but i felt lost , deperate after heard somethings.... we have sushi dinner .... wasted food ..... cun finish it....ordered too much .....
WE CONSPIRE WE ARE COUPLE AND CONQUER ANYTHINGS TOGETHER !!!
Today, Apr 1, we successfully have our 4th month anniversary, though we have a some arguments on nonsense matters throughout this few months. BUT We are happy with our relationship now. And my God especially our Lalaland members continue to bless us.


Im happy ... .....Bebe is planning to come over end mth of May 08 ....

10/04/08 not happy cos babe kip protect his "Daisy"...he said nothing between them nvr kip in contact 4 so long seems like he tryin 2 cover sumthin...felt sad aftr found out they stil contact mid yr 07 (he statement long time no contact???) ...i knew the girl like him but to protect relationship we must prove to each others that we not hidden something right??

How we settle this ?? we compromise To show our sincere and proven ... we must try to avoid this kind of happenings .... i try he try ... we deleted all unknown contacts especially who loves to chat with us ... or wooing us ... no more no more .... Finally we success !!! We only keep serious or trustworthy friends in contact due to some personal/business contacts...

as for now 010210, we are stable and would like to settle down 101010. i've changed my plan ..back to Spore earlier 2months...no much different in fact....


PS :
Do you know the relation between your two eyes?They blink together , move together , cry together ,See things together , and sleep together .. (and, I don't mean "that"!)Even though they never see each other.. Relationship should be just like that Life is like hell without friends.. " Who is your LOVER? .. All The Best........ ~*-*~ ~*-*~



2008 DEC

Am I ready? Readiness for what kind of thing? My friends, one by one have settled down their life with their significant other half, some even have their children and live with full happiness at least for now, and I’m sincerely hope that they can be last forever and ever. It’s really made me feel so envy with their marriage life and also made me start to think of mine as well.

Marriage life? I think it will be quite new and fresh to me, it’s totally another new stage of lifestyle for me. I have many sorts of imaginary scenes for my future marriage life. Imagination is always sweet and happy. But, it’s cruel to remind myself that reality will always much more different than our dreams. No doubt, this situation could be happened to everyone in every marriage. In order that, for me, I will always advise myself not to expect or imagine too much on my future marriage, this is to avoid any dissatisfaction or comparison that could create many complaints and demands on/from your other half in future. Just let everything go naturally.

Have you ever heard about a famous proverb like "Getting Married is the life of starting to step into the tomb" (This is what I heard from some of my male friends) and I wonder how true is this. Most of the cases, they claim that their spouse (which mean women or us) will be totally controlling their freedom, suspecting every single things/movements or controlling their financial ability after getting married. In fact, when there is something related with relationship, definitely there will be occurrence of jealousy. We are human being, we have our own feeling/reaction/preference on every kind of things/events. Anyway, to avoid this kind of situation, just try to minimize the chance of making your partner feeling unsecured or suspecting you by showing your faithful heart and always keep your promise to them. Well, for me, I never believe there will be no argument, disagreement or dishonest at all in a marriage. For sure, the minor one we still able to handle with care, but as if we are facing the serious matter? What’s our reaction? How could we handle it without hurting anyone? Especially when an unlucky party is facing a dishonest partner or even a violence partner, I think the entire marriage life will be suffering, isn’t it?

Study through some of the reports/articles regarding marriage nowadays, it seems that marriage can be broken up so easily, relationship now is soft like a beancurd, with any harder pressure, it will be broken or burst up like nothing. But for me, I have seen quite a number of examples for successful relationship or even successful long distance relationship. Who said long distance relationship does not exist? Advance technologies nowadays can make many things become reality. Sometimes, broken up with some reasons that made other party seems or feels like very real or truth or guilty is just an excuse for somebody. Personally, I can’t stand with this kind of people, simply give any excuse to break up with another party who treat them very nicely and did not make any fault.

And, for me, I never demand much from my partner, I know no one will be perfect in this world. Since I was young, I’m only looking for the guy with good personality and can treat me nicely. Mr. Right / Mr. Perfect to me are very simple. He only needs to be understanding, tolerant, can bright up my mind when I’m down, mature or knowledgeable that can give/teach me useful information/advise when I lost, responsible and always keep his promise, know when to be serious and when to be playful, loyalty, hardworking and always looking to go forward or improvement on himself, friendly and piety to both of our friends and family; and the most important is he must adore me like the precious one and always put me at his first priority. I do not think it is hard right? And, I never looking for the guys who are rich and proud, good appearance, flirty and wild guys who like to hang out other places rather than home, always put his friends at the first priority and never think of their partner’s feeling, strong gentleman egoism, no ambitious to their future life, stubborn and bad temper, satyr, stingy and not generous, unfaithful/dishonest, violence and etc. This is because I am not tough enough, I really scared to get hurt from any relationship. In other words, I only choose to fell into a relationship that I feel secured and safe. I never want to test or try on a relationship, once I attach with somebody, I really meant to be forever and long lasting unless there’s something occurred which can make us separated. I do not like to fool with love and I expect the others treat me the same as well, I do not like anyone getting hurt in a relationship unless there’s some incidents happened between two parties.

Am I too pessimistic on marriage? I’m not! I’m just expressing some of my ideas regarding marriage nowadays. I think I should be optimistic to my future marriage as if my future spouse still sticks to the current one. I believe that he’s definitely a nice guy who can let me to rely on and feel at ease to share my entire life with. Although I have been so desperate to get married in last few months girls like to think many weird stuffs, but I know I’m still not ready yet. Getting married is easy, only there are tons of things we have to face and handle later on, if there’s no proper arrangement or management in a marriage, the worst ending will be DIVORCED. It needs lots of commitments to make a marriage successful. I’m concerned about those commitments, it isn’t a game anymore, we have to pay full responsibility for everything we are going to do or we have done. There is no more one man business but it is involving two parties. Hence, the tension and pressure from a marriage is not a joke, it is quite a heavy burden for those who are not ready and not planned properly yet. As a matter of fact, I have my own arrangement and planning now, frankly speaking, marriage is still under my planning now, it’s still a long list to go before I can step into a marriage. So, let me achieve some of my planning or dreams first before I can think about it. Marriage is very important to me, once decision made, it will be whole life decision, I think I need more time to reconsider and plan for it. Dear! I hope you can wait for me for another few more years, I know that you will understand that we need to work harder for our career in these few years to achieve more things, I know that you will understand that we need more preparations for a good quality future especially on financial support at this moment. I know you are being so understanding, patience and tolerance to my unpredictable emotional all the way I started my social university. I’m learning, try to learn as many things and gain as much as knowledge for myself. You told me I changed so much after worked, YES! I DID!, perhaps I think this is a nice change for me compared with the previous me. I know you will always support me and reassure me when I need someone beside me and listen to my every single ups and downs. I know I’m not a good partner to you because I’m not perfect at all, but try to accept every single things of mine, no matter the goods or the bad one, I always hope that I’m the unique one and the one and the only one in your heart. I do always pray that you will never compare me with the other girls in this world and you will always love me in this way. I WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR SACRIFICE TO ME IS WORTHY AND ALWAYS VALUABLE IN FUTURE. I WILL PAY BACK TO YOU WITH DOUBLE TRIPLE TIMES. I WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL HAVE A VERY HAPPINESS FAMILY IN FUTURE, I WILL DO IT FOR YOU & MAKE YOUR DREAM COME TRUE.

Latest update June 30, 2010



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kuaikuai de intro

my dream..........Me, myself & I ....
I love being in the presence of close friends. I enjoy having conversations with people who have a great sense of humor, who make me laugh. I love spending time at the beach with my dogs , or just lazing around with a good book. In fact, i like to sing and dance , I cook and I do the dishes sometimes.....how i wish i could take some courses to enhance my knowledges. I hate slow drivers who drive in the fast lane, I hate hypocrites and back stabbers, and I despise those who take advantage of others. If you have something to say to me, say it out loud. Do not give me that holier than thou crap. I’m loyal, extremely loyal at times, and sometimes too quiet for some people’s liking. I try to be reasonable at all times, but my temper almost always gets the better of me.
I am very particular about time and punctuality. If I say I’ll be there at 10, I’ll be there at 10. I’m considering is a very straightforward person. Sometimes, against my better judgement, I hide the truth from you. As ridiculous as it sounds, I find myself hard to say NO. I don’t like hurting or letting people down, as I dont handle guilt very well. So if you’re trying to ask something out of me, and I give you a thousand and one excuses, it would do you good to read between the lines.
I love all religions which never abandones ppl. I love everything about Asia : the futbol, the music, the samba, the beautiful people, the language, the food. I believe what goes round, comes around. For every action there is a consequence.
*****
10 Things you might not know about me:
I am afraid of clowns.
I love dogs and have ever once lived with 9 dogs under the same roof at one point in my life.
I have never had my teeth filled.
Im pure Chinese.
I love travelling, shopping....
I love eating Asian Foods.
Everyone in my family calls me shirley, shire, shiyu, setlee, my mom called me baby...
I have recently become addicted to HK drama..
I have an incessant eye infection that comes and goes ...when im super tiring...perhaps...soreeyes...
ASK ME !~~~HAHAHA

9 Places I’ve visited:
I’ve never really been anywhere except the HK, THAI , , and well some parts of West Malaysia. Eeeeeks!

8 Ways to win my heart:
Love ME
Take me somewhere. Anywhere. Holiday trips, beach, concerts, just DISCUSS & PLAN the arrangements so I dont have to stress about it before we go.
Cook me dinner.
Let me cook you dinner.
Make me laugh.
Hug me.
Help with the housework.
Be polite.

7 Things I want to do before I die:
Win a million bucks, so I can knock everything else off this list.
Go travelling, backpacking, I dunno.. somewhere.
Buy a house. Another house.
Get married, have kids.
Learn to speak another language fluently. Chinese, hopefully.
Go to the CHARITY Show WHENEVER I CAN.
GO learn some diving courses.

6 Things I am afraid of:
Losing a loved one to death.
Getting sick with some kind of serious illness.
Bugs - especially the ones with a lot of legs.
Losing my faith in someone I LOVE.
Falling.
Going blind.

5 Things I don’t like:
Back stabbers.
Superficiality.
Bugs (refer above).
Getting sick with flu. It sucks not getting to taste what you eat.
People who talk too much.

4 Ways to Turn me Off:
Be rude.
Jump queues.
Be totally self-centered.
Be cruel to animals.

3 Things I do every day:
Go online, check my emails.
Listen to some music.
Day dreaming for 10mins

2 Things that make me happy:
Hanging out with friends.
Winning. At anything.

1 Thing on my mind right now:
Happy hours.


shire's - kuaikuai intro - short brief
Acc0rDing 2 friends stated pr00f, TheY SAID ME MOODSwINg , Complicated at times.. Can be very friendly when i feel comfortable but can be cold when i don't. iN D pASt, IM Very impatient (I hAte WAITING PPL). i'm very straightforward.. I'm born to b strong but I hate being strong , i'll prefer 2 B silly & choose not to know certain things when i know cox i'll be hurt knowing the truth. In d past, I wILL RUN away from trouble..because i'm not as strong as what others think i am (BUT NOW I TRYING TO FACE PROBLEM & I FEEL THAT I CAN OVERCOME IN FACT). I get confused easily and I get stress up very fast. Love watchiNG TAIWAN/HONG KONG series, listening to beautiful music that touches me AND sUmtimes Rock or R&B music make me feel happy & high when im in good mood tOo cos truly beLieVE ppl cho0se 2 listen music according T0 theIr M0od.. Passion for dance, love to watch performance but afraId to go up stage (BUT I STILL TRY MY BEST TO OVERCOME IT). =) Love to sing, daydream and imagine things.. Hate changes. I always hope things around me stay original..(but i knew
we will only GREW up after changes so wat to do ?? accept the facts loh~~~).......If I expect my hardwork to pay off..if it don't i'll feel stupid. I'm someone emotional and don't know what i want in life. I just wanna live my life to the fullest and be happy in everything i do.. i hate stress and i don't like people to force me to do things i don't wanna do . Love Mickey & Minnie the disneyland~like collect Disney Brands' Watches & Clothing but im sad cos i mayb misplaced or ....other reason.... when rent room in Singapore till now i still cant find whr is it(mayb missing or someone/maids took it w/o my permission~~sadddddd my Nike Shoe & bags & clothing also MIA hence, it made me really sad and decided to rent whole hse & found it safe when myself is owner NO MORE WORRY) I just need lotsa support and encouragement . Love being love and dote.. I need a man who knows how to make up decision for me when i'm confused, be my best friend encourage me support me when i need listening ear, be my Parents believe me in whatever i do and will borrow me his shoulder when i feel weak, love me for who i am, never lie to me and will never try to break my heart.. I WISH TO BE PAMPERED LIKE A BABY~~


Always remember wat i said~~~ Never say I love you If you dont really care Never talk of feelings If they arent really thereNever hold my hand If you mean to break my heart Never say foreverIf you ever plan to part Never look into my eyes If you are telling me a lie Never say hello!!!If you think you say goodbye Never say that Im the one If you dream of more than me Never lock up my heart If you dun have the key ~~~


Who I Want to Meet:

Any easygoing and friendly gal or guy, easy going fren lorr...not demanding

SincErE pErSon wiF nO bAd iNtEnTiOn .............sM OnE wHo dUn MiNd haViNg mE aS tHeiR FrEnz. Any easygoing and friendly gal or guy See ya...if u r nt d one, tink V betta dun waste Time ! In Shire's own words: oops...neva go adventures such as biking, hiking, camping which giving leech suck me up, canoeing, swimming, bungee jumping(but neva get d chance to do so yet.. ,..only eva joined rafting , some adventures , wildlife searching , hm~~!!

In my bedroom, you'd find: my clothes & books, cd, cosmetics everyhwere..!! o.O.OObest things i learned from my parents: TRUST & depend on urself is d best policy..!!three things i can't live without: H2O , $?$ and happiness besides these are internet, handphoneabout her ideal match

I'm picky when it comes to: sense of humor!! guys, i need 1 tat knows how to deal with d situation when it comes complicated. sum1 hu can actually dress up according events N dun 4get must be talkative n caring to even make me SMILE when im down :)frankly , DON THINK I CAN ALWAYS MAKE U LAUGH ALL D TIME , so , hopefully, is ur turn 2 make me happy if u wish 2 b wif me le~~~ahahahaha


OMG! ERMMMMMMMerm.....of course , looking for my perfect guy !o!~~ haha!!so gals/guys ah~~~u muz b very Caring Lovely N Sincere partner/frenz cox i like to play tricky with u ~~ if u believe it den u'll hate me dump me de~~so do u still dat u wish 2 b wif such annoying person who make u crazy ~u have 2 accept Crazy Shire~think carefully ya~~i oredi found him 000 ....heeee......"Mr Ng" ......jinjin --- he more more crazzzyyyy than me....

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