［好感人的一封信］-男人！该知足了吧！别等到失去后，才懂得珍惜！Love your wife

老公：

对不起，我终于狠下心来和你说离婚了。一直以来我都是个懦弱的女人。我用尽心力的守着我门的婚姻，为你烧你爱吃的菜，为了买你喜欢的CD，为你把一 切都弄得很好，给了你我所能给的幸福。而我从未和你提过任何要求，我怕你觉得我烦。可现在我想通了，相恋在久的感情都敌不过几小时的一见钟情。

第一次看到你和她的照片是在音乐网站上，第一次见到她是在你和他离开的酒店门口，第一次听你提起她是在我们结婚3周年纪念晚会上……那真是一个美丽 的女孩。我偷看了你给她写的邮件，里面的每一句话真的好甜蜜，好感人。我看着看着就哭了，我骗自己，这是你写给我的，你永远是爱我的，你怎么可能和别人爱 得那么深呢？是啊！你没有提离婚，我怎么敢说，我怕说了就真的，永远永远都没有你了。

老公，我真的很爱你，很爱着个家。所以你不说，我也什么都不问。只是在你睡了以后漫漫的哭。你知道吗？我想谢谢你，谢谢你陪了我那么多年，我知道你 很爱她，就向我爱着你那样。你没说过离婚，我已经很庆幸了，至少你还是回回家陪我，会吃着我做的饭菜，傻傻的笑。至少你还记得回家给我一个拥抱，记得我的 生日！我觉得够了，真的。我爱着你，包容着她。我以为我们可以就这样相安无事的永远相处下去。直到你昨晚和我讲了一个故事。

你说：我有一个朋友，他已经结婚6年了。他有个很好的太太，一直以来他都爱着他的太太，可4 年前他遇到了一个美丽的女孩。女孩对他很好，给了他太太所没有的★★。于是他们恋爱了，偷偷摸摸却又热烈的爱着。女孩很懂事，和他在一起那么久从来没有提 过结婚之类的事。他依旧爱着太太，只是那已经是属于2个女人的爱了。他不会抛弃他的太太，因为太太对他太好了，好得找不到分手的理由，找不到伤害她的借 口。可现在女孩怀孕了。女孩和他提出了结婚。女孩跟了他4年，把女人最美好的东西都给了他，他没办法拒绝女孩，可又无法抛弃爱他的妻子。故事到这就结束 了，你问我：你说他该怎么办？我没有说话。我知道这是你和他之间的故事。这是你最无奈的选择。

昨晚你睡觉之后，我在旁边看着你，看着你好看的脸。看着你熟睡的样子，你睡得真甜。我吻了你，在你身上小心的留下几百个吻，我知道这是最后一次了。宝宝，我的泪一滴一滴的落在你胸口，漫漫化开。一滴一滴的落在了我碎掉的心上。

宝宝。我走了。我知道我的离开才是最好的结局。我不在你身边，自己要好好照顾自己。我把家里收拾干净了。饭在电饭堡里，回来以后记得自己热热吃了， 这是最后一次给你做饭了。记得不要因为工作常长饿着，对身体不好，还有你有胃病，别和朋友出去喝酒，少吸点烟。我帮你定了1年的牛奶，他们会直接送到家里 的，记得要热过才可以喝。你想买的CD我也买了，就放在电脑桌上。还有什么？对了，这个家里的东西我什么都没带走，除了你第一次送给我的礼物，那只绒线小 熊，我已经习惯抱着它睡觉了。以后它可以陪着我，抱着它我会感觉到你的。

我走了，离开的时候心里很痛，我们住了6年的房子，我和它说再见，我守了6年的家，我和它说再见。我爱了那么多年的你，我和你说：祝福！老公，我走 了以后你要好好爱她，知道吗？不要在爱情里伤害任何人了。一定要对她很好很好，就象我对你那样。帮我吻你们的孩子，我想他一定会很漂亮的。告诉他，我会祝 福他的。我依旧爱着你，只是从今天开始一切与你无关！

是否我沉默了，你才能听到我的心声

是否我停止了，你才能看到我的眼泪

是否我心碎了，你才会摸到我的心痛

是否我消失了，你才会知道我的存在

Chinese to English translation

Husband:

I'm sorry, I finally mind to come and you divorce. I have been is a weak woman. I have exhausted my efforts in guarding the door of the marriage, for you to burn your favorite dishes, in order to buy your favorite CD, as you all very confused, given that I can give you happiness. I never had any requests you mentioned, I am afraid you think I'm sick. But now I figured out, fell in love the feelings of all put in long hours of love at first sight.

You first saw her picture is in the music site, for the first time you saw her and he left the hotel door, for the first time to hear you mention her in our wedding anniversary party on 3 ... ... It was a beautiful girls. I peep you write her a message, in which each word is really so sweet, liking people. I cried while watching it, I lie to myself, this is you wrote me, you will always love me, how can you and others love so deep? Yes ah! You did not mention the divorce, how do I say, I'm afraid to say really, you do not have forever.

My husband, I really love you, I am in love with a home. So you do not say, I have nothing to ask. After you sleep just cry for long. You know? I want to thank you, thank you to accompany me for so many years, I know you love her, I love you to do. You did not say a divorce, I've been very fortunate, and at least you're back home with me, will eat the meal I did, silly laugh.Do you remember the home at least give me a hug, remember my birthday! I think that is enough, really. I love you, inclusive of her. I think we can live in peace forever so get along. Until last night, and I tell you a story.

You say: I have a friend who had married six years. He has a good wife, he has loved his wife, and 4 years ago he met a beautiful girl. Good girl for him, gave his wife does not have ★ ★. So they love, love the sly but warm.The girl was sensible, and with him for so long never mentioned marriage sort of thing. He still loves his wife, but that has been belongs to two women's love. He will not desert his wife, because his wife of his good, too good to be no reason for the breakup, can not find an excuse to hurt her. But now the girl pregnant. Girls and he proposed marriage. The girl with him for 4 years, the best thing a woman gave him, he can not refuse girl, they can not abandon the love of his wife. This is the story to end, you ask me: how do you say he should? I did not speak. I know this is the story between you and him. This is your most frustrating choice.

After you sleep last night, I look at you in the next, looking at your beautiful face. Look at the way you sleep, you sleep really sweet. I kissed you, be careful to stay in your body hundreds of kisses, I know this is the last time.Baby, my tears fell drop by drop your chest, the long-opening. The falls drop by drop pieces of my heart.

Baby. I'm gone. I know that my leaving is the best outcome. I'm not around, they have to take care of yourself. I cleaned the house. Rice in the rice cooker, the hot food after coming back remember, this is the last time you cook. Do not remember the length of the work often hungry, poor health, and you have stomach problems, do not go out with friends drinking, cigarette smoking less. I can help you set the 1 year of milk, they will be directly sent to the home, remember to heat through before they can drink. You want to buy the CD I bought to put the computer desk.What else? Yes, this family thing I did not take, in addition to the first time you gave me a gift, it would only wool bear, I'm used to holding it to sleep.Later it can be with me, holding it I can feel you.

I have left, leaving my heart pain, we live in a house 6 years and I say goodbye to it, I keep the house 6 years and I say goodbye to it. I love you for so many years, I say to you: bless! Her husband, after I left you to love her, you know? Do not love, hurt anyone. Must be very good to her, as I told you so. Help me to kiss your children, I think he will be very nice. Told him that I would bless him. I still love you, but from now on all of your business!

If I was silent, you can hear me

If I stop, you can see my tears

Does my heart, you will touch my heart ache

If I disappear, you will know I exist

{爱和喜欢的分别 } BETWEEN LOVE AND LIKE

爱是他在的时候，眼睛里只有他一人；他不在的时候，一切都带有他的影子。

喜欢是在深夜看书时突然想起他，想象他现在做什么，心里漾起一阵轻飘飘的温暖，却从不主动给他打电话。几分钟后，注意力又重新被书中的情节吸引!
爱是在寂寞的夜里，思念如潮水般涌来，手里捧着书却怎么也看不进去，心里惦记着他此时是否还在加班，吃没吃晚饭，是不是如自己想着他一般想着自己。

喜欢是和他讨论问题争的面红耳赤，各不相让，在他面前像个刺猬一样从不认输，但在心里却早已暗暗佩服他的见地他的才华。
爱是希望他和自己步调一致，和自己心灵相通，他无心说的一句玩笑话也能让自己顷刻情绪低落甚至眼泪汪汪。在他面前，自己是从不设防的。

喜欢是出门在外给他发个短信，告诉他这边的天气很好，然后把手机关掉，独自在异地疯玩一个星期，晒成一个黑人后突然出现在他面前吓他一跳。
爱是无论到哪都希望有他陪伴。可以站在海边给他打手机，让他听听海浪的声音；也可以因为在异乡的街道上看到一个酷似他的背影而愣在原地久久不动。

喜欢是他出差前简单的道一声“一路平安”，看着他离去的背影，心中有一点不舍，却什么也不说，只是默默等待他归来的消息。
爱是他临出差前千叮咛万嘱咐，往他的背包里塞满衣服和食物，在车站要等到火车开走才肯离开。并且在他走后的日子里天天心神不定，一遍遍的祈祷他能够平安归来。

喜欢是在受伤的时候，不想让他看到自己脆弱的一面，在他面前把眼泪悄悄抹掉，转过头依然是一副快乐坚强的模样。
爱是在受委屈的时候，爬在他的胸前痛哭，没有伪装没有顾虑，把所有的烦恼统统告诉他，并渴望从他的怀抱中得到安慰。

喜欢是和他周末逛街逛累了一起吃肯德基；是在寒冷的冬天和他抢一杯热咖啡；是和他并肩走在街上中间始终隔着半米的距离；是陪他一起在电脑前打游戏两个人笑的像个孩子。
爱是周末利用半天时间亲手做出几道好菜满足的看他吃下去；是在寒冷的冬天不断为他的咖啡杯里续上热水；是和他走在街上任由他紧紧挽着自己的手，在他旁边安静着做着，幸福地看着他在电脑前工作时专心的样子。

喜欢是听他讲自己童年的趣事，然后哈哈大笑，心中涌起一阵莫名的感动。
爱是听他将自己童年的趣事，然后微微一笑，心中更加怜惜眼前这个曾经如此调皮捣蛋的男人喜欢是在楼道里碰上他，愉快的和他打声招呼，再简单寒暄几句，擦肩而过的时候看见了窗外明媚的阳光，心情无端好了起来。

喜欢是在楼道了看见他，脸上装出一副毫不在乎的表情，但在擦肩而过时细心感受身边颤动的空气，于是忍不住回头望一眼喜欢是看到他和另一个女孩牵手走过，心里有一点点疼，但很快会冲着朝阳重新扬起笑脸。
爱是输不起的游戏，付出全部之后，留下的可能仅仅是刻在心底的一道伤痕喜欢一个人是想要他是自己的，所以，可以喜欢很多人，想要很多人都是自己的。

爱是明明离不开他，却要不得不放弃他，因为他要的幸福，也许我给不了。不敢霸占他，希望看他找到幸福，即使那份幸福不是跟我分享的。

喜欢是，希望寂寞的时候，无聊的时候，伤感的时候，找个人说说话。
爱是，在任何时候都想跟他分享，快乐的时候甚至希望把错有快乐都给了他。

喜欢是，在很久很久没联络的时候，接到他的电话，然后笑着听他说话。
爱是，在几天没有联络的时候，着急得的打电话给他，然后忍住眼泪笑一笑。

喜欢，只有在一起的时候，才惦记着对方。
爱，是哪怕是在一起，每一秒钟也都在思念思念他。

喜欢一个人，多数许多朋友，也会觉得快乐。
爱一个人，是多一个人，都会难受的两个人的世界。

喜欢一个人，是甜腻的。

爱一个人，是苦尽甘来的。

喜欢一个人，在一起的时候会很开心。
爱一个人，在一起的时候，会莫名的失落。

喜欢一个人，你不会想到你们的将来。
爱一个人，你们常常在一起憧憬明天。

喜欢一个人，在一起的时候永远是欢乐。
爱一个人，你会常常流泪。

喜欢一个人，当你们好久不见，你会突然想起他。
爱一个人，当你们好久不见，你会天天想着他。

喜欢一个人，当你想起他，你会微微一笑。
爱一个人，当你想起他，你会对着天空发呆。

喜欢一个人，你会想他有了孩子，你一定会很喜欢。
爱一个人，会有一天，你突然很好奇：将来我们的孩子
会是什么样子。

喜欢一个人就是希望大家都开心。
爱一个人希望他会更开心。

喜欢一个人，你要得只是今天。
爱一个人，你期望的是永远。

喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点。
爱一个人，是包容了他的缺点。

当你站在你爱的人面前,你的心跳会加速。
但当你站在你喜欢的人面前,你只感到开心。

当你与你爱的人四目交投,你会害羞。
但当你与你喜欢的人四目交投,你只会微笑。

当你与你爱的人对话,你觉得难以启齿。
但当你和你喜欢的人对话,你可以畅所欲言。

当你爱的人哭,你会陪她一起哭。
但当你喜欢的人哭,你会技巧的安慰她。

当你不想再爱一个人,你要闭上眼睛并忍着泪水。
当你不想再喜欢一个人,你只要掩住双耳!

喜欢，是一种心情。
爱，是一种感情。

喜欢，是一种直觉。
爱，是一种感觉。

喜欢，可以停止。
爱，没有休止。

喜欢一个人，特别自然。
爱一个人，特别坦然。

喜欢一个人，有时候盼和他在一起。
爱一个人，有时候怕和他在一起。

喜欢一个人，不停的和他争执。
爱一个人，不停的为他付出。

喜欢一个人，希望他可以随时找到自己。
爱一个人，希望可以随时找到他。

喜欢一个人，总是为他而笑。
爱一个人，总是为他而哭。

喜欢，是执着。
爱，是值得。

喜欢就是喜欢，很简单。
爱就是爱，很复杂。

喜欢你，却不一定爱你。
爱你，就一定很喜欢你。

其实，喜欢和爱仅一步之遥。
但，想要迈这一步。
就看你，
是喜欢迈这一步；
还是爱迈这一步。

Love is when he, his eyes he is the only one; his absence, everything with his shadow.

Like reading a book in the middle of the night suddenly think of him, imagine what he is doing, while Yang Qi floating warm heart, but never take the initiative to call him. A few minutes later, attention was again attracted the plot of the book!
Love is in the lonely night, flood of thoughts, hands holding the book but how can not look at, and my heart thinking about whether he was still working overtime at this time, did not have to eat dinner, do not think of him as their own general think of themselves.

Discuss issues like the war is and he's red in the face, all do not give, in front of him like a hedgehog, like never admit defeat, but in my mind was already secretly admire his insight to his talent.
Love is the hope that he and his act in unison, and his soul, his unintentional joke to say the instant it can help her depression and even tears. In front of him, he is from the undefended.

Like to be away from home send him a message and tell his side of the good weather, and then turn off the phone alone for a week in the off-site Feng Wan, tan suddenly appeared after a black man threatened him jump in front of him.
Love is where all want to have him either company. Can stand on the beach to his cell phone, let him hear the sound of the waves; also because the streets in a foreign land to see the back and looks like his stunned in place a long time still.

Like his simple road trip soon before the "Bon Voyage", watching him leave the back of mind a little sad, but said nothing, just quietly waiting for news of his return.
Love is temporary business before he asked thousands exhort million, to his backpack full of clothes and food, at the station until the train pulled away before they agree to leave. And in the days he had gone distracted every day, the prayer over and over again that he can return home safely.

Love is injured, did not want him to see his softer side, in front of him quietly wiped tears, turned his head is still a strong and happy appearance.
Love is when wronged, climb in front of him crying, no disguise No worries, all the trouble to tell him all, and eager to embrace from his comfort.

Like a worn out his weekend together KFC; is in the cold winter and he grab a cup of hot coffee; was walking in the street with him always separated by half a meter away from the middle; is just to play him in front of the computer Game two men laugh like a child.
Love is a half-day weekends are made in the use of several road met to see him eat good food; is constantly in the cold winter, continued on his coffee cup hot water; is walking down the street with his arm tightly to let him his hand, quietly next to him was doing, happy to see him concentrate when working on a computer look like.

His childhood love is interesting listening to him, then laughed, touched the hearts filled with a burst of inexplicable.
Love is to listen to his interesting childhood himself, then smiled, just this heart more pity for the man once so naughty like hit him in the corridor, and he was happy to say hello, and then a few simple greetings, rubbing shoulders but after I saw the bright sunshine outside the window, and I feel good for no reason again.

Like to see him in the corridor of the face put on a do not care expression, but was snubbed by carefully feeling around in the trembling air, so one can not help looking back to see him like that come hand in hand with another girl , felt a little pain, but soon re-directed at the sun and smiled.
Love is not afford to lose the game, pay all, the left may be just a scar engraved in the hearts of people wanted him to like one of their own, so you can enjoy a lot of people want a lot of people are their own .

Love is clearly not do without him, yet they had to abandon him because he's happy, maybe I can not give. He did not dare to occupy, I hope to see him find happiness, even if the share of happiness is not shared with me.

Like is that the lonely, bored, sad, to find someone to talk to.
Love is, at any time he wanted to share a happy time even hope to have a happy gave him wrong.

Like that in the time long, long time no contact, received his call, then smiled and listen to him.
Love is in the days of no contact, when the call was anxious to give him, and then hold back the tears smile.

Like, only together, only thinking about each other.
Love, even if it is together, every second thoughts are all missing him.

Like a person, the majority of many friends, will feel happy.
Love a person, is one more person, two people are sick of the world.

Like a person, is syrupy.

Love a person, is Kujinganlai.

Like a person, the time will be very happy together.
Love a person, together, inexplicable loss.

Like a person, you will not think of your future.
Love someone, you always look forward to tomorrow together.

Like a person, the time together is always fun.
Love someone, you will often cry.

Like a person, when you lost, you will suddenly think of him.
Love someone, when you lost, you will think of him every day.

Like a person, when you think of him, you will smile.
Love someone, when you think of him, you will daze the sky.

Like a person, you will want him to have children, you will love it.
Love someone, there will be one day, you suddenly very curious: the future of our children
Would look like.

Like a person in the hope that you are happy.
Love a person hope that he would be happier.

Like a person, you will catch just today.
Love someone, you expect is forever.

Like a man, saw his advantage.
Love a person, is inclusive of his shortcomings.

When you stand in front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.
But when you stand in front of the person you like, you can only feel happy.

When you and your loved ones eyes first met, you will shy.
But when people like you and your eyes first met, you will smile.

When you dialogue with the people you love, you find it difficult to talk about.
But when you talk to people you like, you can say anything.

When you love cry, you will accompany her to cry.
But when you like, cry, you comfort her skills.

When you do not want to love someone, you have to close your eyes and hold on the tears.
When you do not want to like someone, you just cover your ears!

Like a mood.
Love is a feeling.

Like, is a kind of intuition.
Love is a feeling.

Like, you can stop.
Love, no ending.

Like a person, especially nature.
Love a person, especially calm.

Like a person, and sometimes hope to be with him.
Love a person, sometimes afraid to be with him.

Like a person, and he kept the dispute.
Love a person, to pay for his keep.

Like a person, hoping that he can always find yourself.
Love, hope you can find him at any time.

Like a person, always smile for him.
Love a person, always cry for him.

Like, is attached.
Love is worth it.

Love is like, very simple.
Love is love, is very complex.

Like you, not necessarily love you.
Love you to be like you.

In fact, like and love one step.
However, you want to step this step.
To see you,
This is like step by step;
Still love step this step.

MARRIAGE

In the entire of your life, you can find many many persons who can live with you, i.e. housemates during your university life, colleagues during your working life and etc. But, these kind of people, you might not seeing them everyday, because they might have different interests, different group of friends, different events or even different lifestyle. You might be meeting them up twice in a week although living under the same roof. Sometimes, you will only get together with them when there's some events that you guys have to join together / during the breakfast or lunch or dinner time. You will miss them or think of them some of the time only. You still can enjoy your life with your other friends and join some events or activities without them, maybe that will not affect your feeling and mood at all if they are not around.

And, it's not easy to find a person that you can't live without:-

* You need the person all the time and you wish to see the person all the time.

* You wish to share every single things in your life with the special person.

* You wish the person will always by your side all the time.

* You wish both of you can join every single events and activities all the time.

* When you are with your friends, you wish the person will join and can mix with your friends as well.

* You wish everytime you wake up, the first person you see is him/her.

* You wish everytime you are happy, sad, down or whatsoever, you can't wait to tell him/her about that.

* You will miss him/her all the time no matter where you are, when is it.

* You will always send your best regards and pray for him/her all the time when he/she's not around.

* You will always wish that he/she will be your future spouse and always imagine about your future.

* You wish that he/she can stay happily with your family members and also relatives.

* You will always think about his/her feeling first when you are going to do, to speak something.

* And, lastly, you wish he/she can do the same things as abovementioned to you all the time and you will hope that you can always being the important person that he/she can't live without all the time as well. And, etc etc.

It's not easy to find a partner that you can't live without. Once you found one, please bear in your mind of the followings:-

It's not easy to understand each other completely all the time (everyone has their secret in their heart that would not tell anybody, you have to respect that);

It's not easy to communicate with each other nicely all the time (no matter how well you express your feeling to each other, there's still some misunderstandings out there);

It's not easy to live with each other in a harmony situation all the time (no matter how good is the couple, there are still some arguement out there);

It's not easy to be faithful all the time (no matter how trustworthy of each other, there is still a few dishonest issues out there);

It's no way to find a perfect partner (no matter how good is the person, they still have their bad sides, nobody is perfect in this world, you have to reduce your chance to compare your partner with other persons all the time);

It's not easy not to make comparison between your partner with another better person (the more you compare, the higher chances to lead you to the dissatisfaction of your partner, remember noone is perfect, try to accept everything of your partner);

It's not easy not to complain each other in the entire life (plese minimize this, always try to think about the good sides of each other and appreciate it, yes! again, bear in your mind that noone is perfect);

And etc etc.

Marriage is a commitment for each other. It's not a self-business anymore. So, please respect each other everytime. It's easy to get married, but it's not easy to maintain it. Please hold with caressss!!!

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一千年才有一次的 10/10/10 ，真是很难得的一天♡｡◕‿◕｡❤
~就像这日子将❤十全十美♡｡◕‿◕｡❤♂ ♀ ♥幸福快乐❤

10-10-10呢,一生也只有这一次啊,是个吉祥的日子 ... 2010年10月10号；三个10重叠，“十全十美”吗，百年一遇。难得！十分难得！ ...

2010.10.10三个10聚一天,百年一遇啊，祝大家健康快乐

10/10/10（10年10月10日）是百年一遇的“十”全“十”美好日子，下一回要等到一百年后的2110年了。

祝福朋友生活十全十美！吉祥如意！幸福安康！ ... 当然，过去的经验要总结，未来的风险要预防，这才是智慧的。 ...

My Music - my love will get you home

If you love someone, you will not bear to let them to get hurt, sad or cry for you. Please do always appreciate the one you love and the one you can't live without.

When A Girl

When a GIRL is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers "i’m fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you, she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says I love you, she means it.

When a GIRL says "i miss you," no one in this world can miss you more than that.

…Do you agree?…